Maiden
What you need to sow
Do something purely beautiful with no justification. Buy the flowers.

Haiti / Caribbean
Lwa of Love, Luxury and Tears
Haiti, from the colonial period to the present within living Vodou tradition
Her story
goddess · Haiti, from the colonial period to the present within living Vodou tradition
Erzulie Freda arrives exquisite, is offered the finest things, and almost always ends in tears — because nothing on earth quite matches what she can imagine. She is the lwa of love as an ideal and of the ache that comes with holding one.
Her weeping is not weakness; it is the price of refusing to lower the standard. Devotees keep her table immaculate — perfume, sweets, three wedding rings — and she gives back charm, artistry and a sharpened sense of what beauty is for. She also demands that you treat yourself as worth the good tablecloth.
In the oracle
What you need to sow
Do something purely beautiful with no justification. Buy the flowers.
What you need to grow
Nurture your standards and your self-regard. You have been accepting less than you would let a friend accept.
What you need to know
Some longing never resolves. You can let it make you an artist instead of a hostage.